Alright, so, I’ve been trying to stick to this “Mothers Rule of Life” thing. Let me tell you, it’s been quite the journey. I mean, I’m a mom, and life’s always been a bit of a rollercoaster, you know? But I wanted to get a bit more organized, have some kind of structure.
Starting Early
First thing I did was try to wake up before the kids. Sounds simple, right? Well, it wasn’t easy at first. I’m not exactly a morning person, and those little ones have this internal alarm clock that goes off way too early. But I started setting my alarm just 15 minutes earlier each day. Nothing crazy. Then I bumped it up bit by bit.
And you know what? It actually made a difference. I could have my coffee in peace, maybe read a few pages of a book, or just sit there and enjoy the quiet before the storm, haha. It was like having a little “me time” oasis in the morning.
Getting Organized
Next, I tried to get a handle on the chaos. You know how it is – toys everywhere, laundry piling up, appointments to remember. So, I started using a planner. Nothing fancy, just a simple one where I could jot down appointments, to-do lists, and all that jazz. I also created a family calendar, and let everyone use different color markers.
Then I started doing meal planning. I’d sit down on Sunday and plan out the meals for the week. It was a bit of work upfront, but it saved me so much time and stress during the week. No more staring into the fridge at 5 PM wondering what to make for dinner!
Prioritizing Myself
This was a big one for me. It’s so easy to get caught up in taking care of everyone else that you forget about yourself. So, I decided to prioritize my own well-being. I mean, you can’t pour from an empty cup, right?
I started with small things. Like making sure I drank enough water throughout the day. Or taking a few minutes to stretch or do some deep breathing. And I tried to schedule in some time for things I enjoyed, even if it was just for 30 minutes.
- I signed up for a yoga class.
- I joined a book club.
- I started going for walks in the evening after the kids were in bed.
It wasn’t always easy to find the time, but I made it a priority. And honestly, it made me a better mom. I was more patient, more energized, and just generally happier.
The Results
So, after sticking to this “Mothers Rule of Life” for a while, what are the results? Well, I’m not going to lie, some days are still a mess. There are still tantrums, and spills, and days when I feel like I’m barely keeping it together. But overall, things are definitely better.
I feel more in control, more organized, and more like myself. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about making small changes that add up to a big difference. It’s about finding a rhythm that works for you and your family. And it’s about remembering that taking care of yourself is not selfish, it’s essential.
So, if you’re a mom out there feeling overwhelmed, I encourage you to give this “Mothers Rule of Life” thing a try. Start small, be patient with yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. You got this!
