Okay, so, “Ritual Sex Magick.” Yeah, I went there. I’d been reading about it for a while, kinda circling the idea, you know? It sounded intense, powerful, and, honestly, a little intimidating. But the potential for deeper connection and, well, explosive energy was too tempting to ignore. I finally decided to dive in with my partner. Here’s how it went down.
Getting Ready
First, we talked. A lot. This isn’t something you just jump into. We discussed our boundaries, our intentions, what we were hoping to achieve. We both wanted to explore heightened intimacy and manifest some positive changes in our lives. We agreed on a shared intention: to strengthen our bond and bring more abundance into our shared space.
Then, we prepped the space. This was crucial. We cleaned the bedroom, like, really cleaned it. Got rid of clutter, swept, mopped – the whole nine yards. We wanted the energy to be fresh and clear. We then smudged the room with sage, focusing on the corners and doorways, visualizing any stagnant or negative energy being cleared out.
Next, we set up an altar. Nothing fancy, just a small table covered with a nice cloth. We placed candles (red and white, for passion and purity), some crystals we both felt drawn to (rose quartz and clear quartz), and a small bowl of water with a few drops of essential oil (ylang-ylang and sandalwood – smelled amazing!).
The Ritual Itself
We showered separately, focusing on cleansing not just our bodies, but also our minds. We visualized any stress or negativity washing away down the drain.
Then, we got into the bedroom, naked and a little nervous, to be honest. We started with some deep breathing exercises, facing each other, holding hands. We focused on syncing our breath, feeling our energies start to connect. Then, we began to move, slowly at first, just gentle touching and caressing. The focus wasn’t on rushing to orgasm, but on building the energy between us, savoring each touch, each sensation.
We gazed into each other’s eyes, a lot. It felt intense, vulnerable, but incredibly connecting. We whispered our intentions to each other, reinforcing that shared goal of deeper connection and abundance. We visualized a golden light growing between us, expanding with each breath, each touch.
As the energy built, the movements became more intense, more passionate. We were completely lost in the moment, in each other. It felt like we were merging, becoming one energy field. It was…powerful. I can’t really describe it any other way. The focus stayed on that shared intention, weaving it into the energy we were creating.
The Climax (and Beyond)
When we finally reached climax, it was… explosive. Not just physically, but energetically. We visualized that golden light bursting outwards, filling the room, carrying our intentions out into the universe. We held each other close, basking in the afterglow, feeling completely connected and drained, in the best way possible.
We stayed there for a while, just holding each other, letting the energy settle. Then, we slowly got up, feeling a sense of peace and completion. We thanked each other, and the universe, for the experience.
The Aftermath
The days that followed were…different. We felt closer, more connected, more in tune with each other. And, weirdly enough, we started seeing little synchronicities, little signs of abundance popping up in unexpected ways. A new client opportunity, a small unexpected windfall… it felt like things were shifting. Whether it was the ritual, or just the power of intention and connection, I don’t know. But it definitely felt like something had changed.
Would I do it again? Absolutely. It was intense, vulnerable, and incredibly powerful. It’s not something to take lightly, but if you’re open to exploring deeper levels of intimacy and energy work, it’s definitely worth considering. Just make sure you do your research, talk to your partner, and create a safe and sacred space.
