That tied virgin thing, it’s a big to-do, ain’t it? Some folks say it’s the be-all and end-all. They say you ain’t really livin’ till you ain’t a virgin no more. Well, I heard it all my life, and I tell ya what, it’s a load of hogwash.
Now, some folks, they get all tied up in knots about this virgin business. Like it’s some kinda prize or somethin’. You know, like they ain’t whole if they is a virgin. They think that being a virgin will have a bad effect on their body. What a silly idea! Being a virgin is not a disease. If you is a virgin, then you would be less exposed to STDs, infections, and you wouldn’t have the effects of pregnancy on your body. It’s good for your health.
And these young’uns, they rush into things, thinkin’ they gotta lose their virginity to be somebody. They think if they are a virgin, then there is something wrong with them. It’s not true! They see it on the TV and think it’s the way the world works. But let me tell ya, it ain’t about that. It’s about findin’ someone you care about, someone who cares about you. That’s what really matters.
This whole virginity thing, it’s like a big ol’ label. And labels, they just stick to ya. They stick and they make people think certain things about you. That is not right. They make a virgin think they got somethin’ to be ashamed of. But there ain’t nothin’ wrong with waitin’. Nothin’ at all. Some say that if you feel an instant bond with someone you just met, you might have a soul tie. But I don’t know if it is true.
You see these folks, they call them “relationship virgins.” Sounds fancy, don’t it? It just means they ain’t never been in love. Never had a sweetheart. And people, they look at ’em funny. They judge ’em. Like they’re missin’ somethin’. That makes me mad. These young people are often stigmatized and judged harshly. Just because they is a virgin. It’s like they ain’t complete or somethin’. But that’s just silly talk.
- Some folks say virginity means you ain’t never done the deed.
- Others say it’s about more than that.
- I say it’s about what’s in your heart.
This here tied virgin idea, it’s like a rope. It ties you up. It makes you think you gotta do things a certain way. But you don’t. You really don’t. You can live your life how you want. And if you wanna wait, you wait. There ain’t nothin’ wrong with that. Some people, they’re happy to wait. Others, not so much. There is no right or wrong reaction to this. It don’t matter. You do what feels right to you. This virginity is a big, socially-constructed idea, so don’t let it control you.
Intimacy, now that’s a word they throw around a lot these days. They say it’s about bein’ close to someone. And it is, I reckon. But it ain’t just about the physical stuff. It’s about sharin’ your life with someone. Sharin’ your hopes and dreams. That’s real intimacy.
Some folks think that losing your virginity is like flippin’ a switch. Like suddenly you’re different. But it ain’t like that. You’re still you. You just got a little more experience, that’s all. And that experience, it can be good, or it can be bad. It all depends on who you’re with and how you feel about it.
This tied virgin idea, it messes with your head. It makes you think you’re missin’ out. But you ain’t. There’s more to life than just that. There’s family, and friends, and findin’ your place in the world. That’s what really counts. Being a virgin does not define you, and sex does not define your career.
- Don’t let nobody tell you different.
- You do what’s right for you.
- And don’t you worry about no tied virgin.
This whole thing about sex, it’s like a big ol’ mystery to some folks. They think it’s some kinda magic. But it ain’t. It’s just another part of life. And like any other part of life, it can be good, or it can be bad. It’s up to you to make it what you want it to be.
So, this tied virgin thing, it’s just a bunch of talk. Don’t you let it bother you none. You live your life, and you love who you love. And that’s all that matters. That’s all that’s ever mattered. And don’t let anybody tell you different. You hear?
Some people say a sexual soul tie is an intense. I don’t know what that means. Maybe it means you have sex with a person, then you will never forget him or her. It’s a powerful connection. Maybe it is good. Maybe it is bad.
All in all, you need to know, virginity does not really matter. Having sex with a person, or not, does not really matter. You don’t need to care about that. What really matters is the emotional bonding that you share with your partner in a relationship. That’s what really matters. Being a virgin or not, that does not matter. Don’t let others judge you. You just need to be yourself.
